There are 4 skills that apply in business and life that a man acquires when he succeeds in maintaining great rapport with multiple girlfriends in his life. How to actually pull this off next to drama free is a story for another day. Right now, I want you to consider the skills it takes and why they will be sharpened by managing several girlfriends at once, like no other avenue for learning can provide. An attractive man will hold the sexual power with his woman. Period.

It is simply true that… Whoever is the most attractive in the relationship is in charge. It means whoever brings the most value and sense of entitlement gets the veto power. Hopefully, this sense if value is mutual, thus there is a healthy play of balance between the parties involved, no matter what type of relationship arrangement it is. Men, at their core, are designed to lead with their desire, and women are designed to desire guidance from high quality men. Period.

In a sexual relationship it is especially important that one person isn’t lording power over the other if things are to go well and have a long term potential for on-going sexy. If one or the other person feels his or her value is greater or less than the other over a period of time, this is dysfunctional and that is not what I mean by being attractive. Nor is that what it means to be successful in life and love. An attractive man will hold the sexual power with his woman.

The skill set a man needs to be successful in a committed long term relationship can be learned through successful management of several women at once. This multi girlfriend skill set is the EXACT skills (plus a few) he will need to navigate his way successfully through a long term relationship with one special girl. By success I mean he will know how to build rather than kill attraction over a lifetime which translates to: An attractive man will hold the sexual power with his woman.